Is there such Good Luck or Bad Luck?

LUCK:

              There are no coincidences in life. What person that wandered in and out of your life was there for some purpose, even if they caused you harm. Sometimes, it doesn’t make sense the short periods of time we get with people, or the outcomes from their choices. However, if you turn it over to God he promises that you will see the big picture in the hereafter. Nothing is too small to be a mistake. 

              Luck is what you have left over after you give 100 percent. Luck is when opportunity knocks and you answer.

              The lucky or successful person has learned a simple secret. Call up, capture, evoke the feeling of success. When you feel successful and self-confident, you will act successful. Define your goal or end result. Picture it to yourself clearly and vividly. Then simply capture the feeling you would experience if the desirable goal were already an established fact. Then your internal machinery is geared for success: to guide you in making the correct muscular motions and adjustments; to supply you with creative ideas, and to do whatever else is necessary in order to make the goal an accomplished fact.

GOOD LUCK:

Luck? I don‘t rely on it.
Anything thing is success –
First of all it is a hard work, day after day,
And everything you do must have a purpose.
Also it is realizing what is the true opportunity and what is not.
It is seeking for your goals with determination and belief.
Being thankful for what you already have.
Being positive and never looking back.

Success may come and go away,
But your achievements will stay.
Hard work may take fun of today,
But it leaves all the things to cherish for tomorrow.

 

"I believe there is always a good luck. Just give your 100% and acheive your goal" 

what is in our hand? In our hand is only to try our best and to give our 100%. So please do not relay on good luck or bad luck. You need to give your 100% to achieve something. Thats simple! 

BAD LUCK:

You can lose
A child
Or a parent,
The love of your life,
A good job,
A game,
A deal,
A bet,
An idea,
Your favorite thing,
Money,
Your best friend,
A moment,
An opportunity,
A chance,
Your keys,
Your mind,
Your health,
Your identity,
Your virginity,
Your religion,
Your shirt,
Your license,
ID or Passport,
Phone or phone number,
Hope,
Faith,
Luck,
Your pride,
Or your house,
And feel like
You've lost everything,
And keep on losing.

Stop
Counting your losses,
And start counting your
Blessings.
Only then will you discover
That losses are always easier
to point out and count
Than blessings.
And that your blessings
will always outnumber
Your losses,
For they are truly
Immeasurable.

It is only normal that
People count losses with
Their minds,
And ignore
To count blessings
With the graciousness
Of their hearts.

"99% Smart Work+1% Luck=100% Success"

Relationships

RELATIONSHIP:

 

•   The way in which two or more people, groups, countries, etc., talk to, behave toward, and deal with each other.
•   A romantic or sexual friendship between two people.

•   Good relationship always preserves mutual understanding, faith on each other, respect with each other,  and most importantly good communication.

TYPES OF RELATIONSHIPS:

             Let us start with the basics. When you think of the word "relationship," what people or situations come to mind? As we get older, we learn that there are a variety of relationships we can have with other people. 

             Basically there are four types of relationship which are as follows:

ese situations:

1. Family Relationships
2. Friendships
3. Casual Relationships
4. Romantic Relationship

1. Family Relationships:

         

Family" includes your siblings and parents, as well as relatives who you may not interact with every day, such as your cousins, aunts, uncles, grandparents, and stepparents.Many times, however, families become blocked in their relationships by hurt, anger, mistrust, and confusion. These emotions are natural and normal, and few families do not have at least a few experiences with them.

It is never too late to begin the process of improving family relationships – even if they are already of good quality – by developing some simple skills.Use your family's presence to your advantage – communicate with each other, develop ways to value boundaries, and build trust and respect.

       2.Friendships:

         

Everyone needs friends, and you probably have always had at least one. A friend is defined as a person you know well and regard with affection, trust, and respect.Another way to make friends is to be friendly and helpful to other people. Talk to people, get to know them, and find out if you have something in common with them.

  

       3.Casual Relationships:

         

  Casual relationships are formed with people you encounter every day – anyone who is not a friend, romantic relationship, or family member. It is important to maintain healthy relationships with the professionals who serve you. They are probably people you look up to for their skills and education, and by showing your respect and learning from these individuals, you will develop important skills that you can apply in your other relationships

       4.Romantic Relationship:

            

In thinking about the different types of relationships, it is important to realize that you can have an intimate relationship with anyone. An intimate relationship is one in which you can truly be yourself with someone who you respect and are respected by in return. It is an emotional connection that can also be physical. It does not have to be in the context of a romantic or sexual relationship.

         
          Now let's talk about romantic relationships, which, unfortunately, are not always intimate relationships. In a healthy romantic relationship, both partners respect each other and have their own identity.

Self Understanding

Who am I?

 

             First step toward success is to find an answer of "Who am I?".

             Many peoples start their career without knowing themselves. So they fail in their aim. We all have our own unique pattern of abilities, interests and personality traits. Self-understanding pinpoints what your likes, dislikes, strengths and other traits are, and inspires personal growth by helping you define your identity.

             Asking yourself questions such as "who am I?" and "where do I want to be?'' is important when considering what career decisions and directions you want to take. Career success and satisfaction relies heavily on whether or not you enjoy the work you are doing. Having a clear idea about your own personal interests is one of the first steps in making a good career decision. Stop and ask yourself: What makes you happy? What hobbies and academic subjects do you enjoy? What are things you like to do in your free time?

Quotes on Self Understanding:

                              “Greater in battle

                                than the man who would conquer
                                a thousand-thousand men,
                                is he who would conquer
                                just one —
                                himself.
                                Better to conquer yourself
                                than others.
                                When you've trained yourself,
                                living in constant self-control,
                                neither a deva nor gandhabba,
                                nor a Mara banded with Brahmas,
                                could turn that triumph
                                back into defeat.” 

                                                                -Gautam Buddha

“You cannot believe in God until you believe in yourself.” 

                                                           ― Swami Vivekananda

Attitude is everything. What do you think?

     What is attitude ?

           You can choose your attitude, change your attitude, or           ignore  your attitude, but first let's talk about what defines one...

     Simple Definition of attitude

•  The way you think and feel about someone or something

•  A feeling or way of thinking that affects a person's behavior 

•  A way of thinking and behaving that people regard as  rude , unfriendly etc.

  
  What are the components of Attitude?
  
  
  
   
  Experts has pointed out three basic components of attitude. These are :
   
• (i) Emotional : Emotional components include the feelings of a person about and object. These feeling could be positive, negative or neutral. While customer service representative displays positive feelings, a police officer or a bill collector would exhibit negative feelings. Similarly while discharging administrative duties public servants are required to show neutral feelings. 
   
• (ii) Informational : The beliefs and information that the individual has about the object are the informational component of attitude. Here it makes little difference if the information is correct or incorrect.
   
• (iii) Behavioral : This components of attitude consist of a tendency of an individual to behave in a particular way towards and object. Only this components of attitude is visible as the other two can only be inferred.
  
  
  
  "Nothing can stop the man with the right mental attitude from achieving his goal; nothing on earth can help the man with the wrong mental attitude"
  
  
  CHANGE YOUR ATTITUDE, CHANGE YOUR LIFE.
  
  

      

Positive First Impression

           

        Well, a time when you meet some person and do you think yourself that OMG that person was little weird or she was not at all impressive. And are you afraid that you meeting someone , that person would also think same about you. Well let not these worries bother you , here are some tips these will help you to make positive first impression.


Be on Time 
Someone you are meeting for the first time is not interested in your "good excuse" for running late. Plan to arrive a few minutes early. And allow flexibility for possible delays in traffic or taking a wrong turn. Arriving early is much better that arriving late, hands down, and is the first step in creating a great first impression.

Be Yourself, Be at Ease
If you are feeling uncomfortable and on edge, this can make the other person ill at ease and that's a sure way to create the wrong impression. If you are calm and confident, so the other person will feel more at ease, and so have a solid foundation for making that first impression a good one.

Present Yourself Appropriately
Of course physical appearance matters. The person you are meeting for the first time does not know you and your appearance is usually the first clue he or she has to go on.

A Winning Smile!
As the saying goes, "Smile and the world smiles too." So there's nothing like a smile to create a good first impression. A warm and confident smile will put both you and the other person at ease. So smiling is a winner when it comes to great first impressions. But don't go overboard with this – people who take this too far can seem insincere and smarmy, or can be seen to be "lightweights."

Be Open and Confident
When it comes to making the first impression, body language as well as appearance speaks much louder than words.
Use your body language  to project appropriate confidence and self-assurance. Stand tall, smile (of course), make eye contact, greet with a firm handshake. All of this will help you project confidence and encourage both you and the other person to feel better at ease.

Be Positive
Your attitude shows through in everything you do. Project a positive attitude, even in the face of criticism or in the case of nervousness. Strive to learn from your meeting and to contribute appropriately, maintaining an upbeat manner and a smile.




 

Love vs Fear

• LOVE IS UNCONDITIONAL (fear is conditional) 
• LOVE IS STRONG (fear is weak) 
• LOVE RELEASES (fear obligates)
• LOVE SURRENDERS (fear binds)
• LOVE IS HONEST (fear is deceitful)
• LOVE TRUSTS (fear suspects) 
• LOVE ALLOWS (fear dictates)
• LOVE GIVES (fear resists) 
• LOVE FORGIVES (fear blames) 
• LOVE IS COMPASSIONATE (fear pities)
• LOVE CHOOSES (fear avoids)
• LOVE IS KIND (fear is angry) 
• LOVE IGNITES (fear incites) 
• LOVE EMBRACES (fear repudiates) 
• LOVE CREATES (fear negates) 
• LOVE HEALS (fear hurts) 
• LOVE IS MAGIC (fear is superstitious)
• LOVE ENERGIZES (fear saps)
• LOVE IS AN ELIXIR (fear is a poison) 
• LOVE INSPIRES (fear worries)
• LOVE DESIRES (fear Jones-es) 
• LOVE IS PATIENT (fear is nervous) 
• LOVE IS BRAVE (fear is afraid) 
• LOVE IS RELAXED (fear is pressured) 
• LOVE IS BLIND (fear is judgmental) 
• LOVE RESPECTS (fear disregards)
• LOVE ACCEPTS (fear rejects)
• LOVE DREAMS (fear schemes)
• LOVE WANTS TO PLAY (fear needs to control)
• LOVE ENJOYS (fear suffers)
• LOVE FREES (fear imprisons) 
• LOVE BELIEVES (fear deceives)
• LOVE “WANTS” (fear “needs”)

      
        Fear is going to be a player in your life, but you get to decide how much. You can spend your whole life imagining ghosts, worrying about your pathway to the future, but all there will ever be is what's happening here, and the decisions we make in this moment, which are based in either love or fear. 

        Are you reaching for what you love, or running away from what you fear? The right choice can make a huge difference to your success, your sense of fulfillment, and your happiness.

        Just think about it at least one time in life.

Why Personal Development is important?

Benefits of personal development

1.Self Awareness 

Personal development begins with self-awareness. You get to know who you really are; your values, beliefs and the purpose you wish to pursue. True fulfilment can never come from chasing other people’s dreams. If you want to achieve lasting happiness, you need to design your life based on who you are. Then you can chase your own goals and objectives. When you are chasing your own goals, there is as much pleasure to be derived from the journey as there is to be derived from reaching your destination. Self-awareness is the first fundamental step in the personal development process.

 2. A sense of direction

Once you have raised you self-awareness, you are clearer on the things you wish to achieve from life. Decision-making becomes a lot easier. Tasks which used to take a great deal of your time, no longer make it onto your to-do list. You now realise that they do not move you towards your objectives and therefore are not worthy of your time.

 3. Improved focus and effectiveness

With personal development comes clarity. Even with an improved sense of direction, there will always be multiple tasks looking for your attention. As your personal development improves, prioritization becomes much easier. You are clearer on your objectives and you can quickly identify which task will give you the best result with the resources available to you at that moment.

 4. More motivation

When you know what you want to achieve, it is easier for you to see the benefits of taking action. Even when the task ahead is not enjoyable; if you can see a clear benefit, you are more motivated to take the necessary action. There is truth in the old adage ‘Where there is a will there is a way’. With strong personal development, you develop the necessary will.

 5. Greater resilience

There will be tough times in life. When these tough times occur, you need to have the skills and attributes to deal effectively with them.  Personal development cannot prevent all bad things from occurring but it will help you deal with them when they do. You will have greater confidence, resilience, personal and interpersonal skills to cope with any eventuality.

 6. More fulfilling relationships

Relationships are a double-edged sword. They either lift you up or drag you down. When you improve your personal development, you are better able to see which relationships are worth investing in and which need to be cut loose. You also develop the skills to make the most of those relationships which have the most positive impact on your life.

Overview Of Personal Development

PERSONAL DEVELOPMENT:

            Personal development is a lifelong process. It’s a way for people to assess their skills and qualities, consider their aims in life and set goals in order to realize and maximize their potential.

This page helps you to identify the skills you need to set life goals which can enhance your employ ability prospects, raise your confidence and lead to a more fulfilling, higher quality life.  Plan to make relevant, positive and effective life choices and decisions for your future to enable personal empowerment.

             Although early life development and early formative experiences within the family, at school, etc. can help to shape us as adults, personal development should not stop later in life. 

Practical Steps to Personal Development:

Practical steps can be taken to enhance personal development, including:

• Organizing your time.
• Producing a personal CV or resume.
• Undertaking a skills appraisal.
• Looking at your transferable skill.
  
• Overcoming barriers to learning a new skill.